By the Time a Woman turns 50
by KaceyBy the time a woman is 50:
–she should have made peace with her past, and be looking forward to her future.
–she should have some money of her own.
–she should have a special place to go when she just can’t take it anymore and she needs to recharge.
–she should know the value of a dollar and when to say screw it and spend frivolously…it’s sometimes good for the soul.
–she should have learned how to give of herself without giving up herself.
–she should have at least one girlfriend who is always there for her. No matter what. The one you can pick up the phone at 3am and call if you need to and she’ll say “I’ll be right there.” Whether she’s across town or across the country.
–she should know her opinions about politics, religion and life… and know when there’s really no reason to voice them.
–she should accept her family members for who they are, know they won’t change, and live with that fact…in whatever way she can.
–she should have some decadent lingerie, a sexy pair of heels, and a comfortable pair of jeans.
–she should have a hobby she indulges in, a creative outlet she nourishes, and the courage to make time for them.
–she should have learned to live on her own, even if she doesn’t live alone.
–she should have learned to like herself and forgive herself.
–she should have someone in her life who truly appreciates her for the person she really is.
What do you think a woman should know by the time she is 50?
that her happiness is there for the taking
That if you put all your troubles in a basket with everyone else’s, you’d still pick yours to take back!
She should know that it’s never too late. I can’t begin to tell you the major life changes I have gone through since turning 50. When I was younger, I envisioned me rocking on the front porch by that age. Uh….no. Not even remotely. Life doesn’t begin at 50, but it sure as heck ain’t over, either!
She should know that it’s not up to others to make her happy but to learn how to make herself happy.
She should know how and when to pick her battles.
She should know that at 50 she can speak her mind and it honestly does not matter what anyone thinks.
She should be comfortable with herself and not care about impressing others.
She should be able to live the good life and not feel any need to brag about it , or defend it, to anyone.
By the time a woman turns 50, she should know that there aren’t any regrets in life, only lessons learned.
…she should know that where she is at during this exact moment in time is a result of all the choices she made in life.
…she should know that “today is a gift, that’s why it’s called the present.”
…she should know that every day she has been alive is a day of celebration!
that she has made a difference
that she is OK the way she is
how fast time goes
Cool! I turned 50 this year and I can honestly say I have all these things. Never seen this list before but it’s so true!
Dru! I love “her happiness is there for the taking!” Wish I would have thought of that.
You guys have lots of great additions to my list!
I love your list! My only exception to it is that I find myself knowing my opinions of politics, religion and life less as I age. Granted, I’m only 40. Still. I was far more dogmatic in my 20’s and early 30’s. I find, now, that I’m more open, more empathetic, less strident. Also, less sure of firm footing on many things.
That said, there are a few certainties, a few black and white areas, which ground all the rest. Which give me the foundation for empathy and openness. Does that make sense?
She should know a really good hairdresser?
She should know what she doesn’t know.
she should have had a pedicure, and not feel guilty…
she will have learned not to judge others until she has walked in their shoes.
she will know that one act of kindness is the best picker-upper.
she will know that she is worthy… yep, she is worthy.
Crap- i’ve got one year and one week left….i better get a move on….
I am NOT there yet..all great goals..8 years to go.
just reached that 50 mark wednesday. and i think i can check off MOST of the things on your list. I’ve enjoyed reading the others comments. this is one of my favorites:
“She should know that it’s not up to others to make her happy but to learn how to make herself happy.”